Lily Flower

What is the goal?

We all have goals, but what do you do when your goals haven’t been met? Yu look around and those around you seem to be flourishing? What you don’t do is compare or give up…comparison robs you of growth and your uniqueness.

Let’s dig into comparison a bit…. ever felt a little jelly because someone else is smashing their goal/vision? You begin to tell yourself a false narrative about why you haven’t accomplished the goal and then proceed to compare your journey to another’s?… Yes you have! We’ve all done it in some form or another. It’s not to say that you aren’t genuinely happy for the person, but you feel some type of way about your lack of accomplishment.

That misplaced feeling is what comparison is made of. I was there before! Happy for them but jealous because of your own procrastination, pretty dumb, but it’s a real issue. COMPARISON WILL KILL YOUR CREATIVTY !!!! Your goal is not their goal, so refocus, prioritize, and smash your goal!

Remember…. Psalm 139:14, I will give thanks and praise to You, for m I fearfully and wonderfully made; Wonderful are Your works, and my soul knows it very well.


Set realistic and attainable goals for the next few months to year. Break the main goal into mini goals and celebrate when you accomplish them.

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